Thanks for Sharing

Episode 106: Getting the Right Level of Care with Tim Kiernon

We're talking to Tim Kiernon with Outer Circle Recovery, a Sober living house for people in recovery with sexual problems in Tennessee.  Tim shares his experience with us working with people from the highest levels of residential care to his experience in the rooms.

 

You can learn more about Tim and Outer Circle at 

outercirclerecovery.com or by calling 615-988- 9088 ext. 102 to talk with Tim directly.

 

Episode 105: Healing the Damage done by addiction with Children

This episode is the first in a series where we will be looking at recovery an healing in a family system.  This episode focuses on what has happened in the family due to addiction and the resulting chaos and what is possible in healing those relationships in the future.  This series was inspired by one of our own listeners who wrote:

 

"Hi, your podcasts have been a tremendous help. Could you do some on how to 'repair' the attachment and trauma damage done to children by remorseful parents? My kids are still under 10 yo and both me and my spouse are in recovery and realized we had unknowingly inflicted attachment and traumatic damages during the kids 0-4 years of age. What can we do henceforth to "reverse/repair/reduce" those wounds and damage suffered by the kids? Thanks... really appreciate it... "  

 

Stay tuned for more deep dives in future episodes!

Episode 104: Prodependence with Rob Weiss

We are excited to have Dr. Rob Weiss back on the podcast!  Rob is talking about his groundbreaking research and new book identifying the problem with the way addiction treatment has traditionally approached partners and relationships. 

 

You can find out more about Dr. Rob and his work at www.prodependence.com

 

His books can be found on amazon.com

 

Episode 103: Later-Stage Sex and Love Addiction Recovery for Women with Staci Sprout

We're excited to be talking with Staci Sprout- therapist and author of the memoir: Naked in Public.  Staci talks with us about the 4 phases of recovery for women and focuses on the gifts in stage 3 and 4.

 

You can learn more about Staci by visiting her website www.stacisprout.com

 

Episode 102: Effective Apologies

Every news cycle highlights something that someone wants an apology for.  The apology rarely happens, and when it does, it is often underwhelming and leaves much to be desired.  Jon and Jackie dissect a 2014 paper written by Stanford Psychologist Karina Schumann in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology that suggests a good apology has eight specific parts:

 

The words "I'm sorry."
The words "I was wrong," or some variation thereof.
An acknowledgment of the action being apologized for.
An honest description of the action without blaming others.
An emphasis on understanding how the wronged person has been hurt.
An outline of plans to make amends for the damage the was done.
An assurance that what's being apologized for won't happen again.
An ask for forgiveness.  

Episode 101: Therapeutic Disclosure with Hope Ray

Disclosure is a process that helps bring a culture of honesty to a relationship.  It's also a place where many are tempted to take shortcuts.  Jackie and Jon talk with Hope Ray, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist in Michigan.  Hope is a specialist in Therapeutic Disclosure with couples in recovery.

 

You can learn more about our guest, Hope Ray, on her website www.hoperaytherapy.com.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Episode 100: Catching Up

We're celebrating 100 episodes, two years of Thanks for Sharing!  Jon and Jackie update their life stories with the last two years of change, growth, and challenges.

 

Episode 99: Power Plays in Relationships with Deb Kaplan

We're excited to welcome back Deb Kaplan, LPC, CSAT-S- author of For Love and Money: Exploring sexual and financial betrayal in relationship.  Today, Deb takes us on a deep dive into how power plays out between partners in a committed relationship.  You don't want to miss this!

 

Episode 98: Critical Thinking Skills

Jackie and Jon take a look at Critical Thinking through a relationship lens.  How do you engage the intuitive parts of your brain with the parts that are really good at analyzing and dissecting information?  Listen to find out!

Episode 97: Addiction, Trauma, and Relationships with Triune Therapy Group

 

Jackie and Jon welcome Kate Balestrieri, Psy. D, CSAT-S and Lauren Dummit, LMFT, CSAT to talk about the importance of understanding the intersection between addiction, trauma, and relationships.  Kate and Lauren co-founded Triune Therapy Group (https://www.triunetherapy.com) and host the weekly radio show "Behind Closed Doors with Dr. Kate and Lauren" (http://www.kabc.com/2018/05/31/behind-closed-doors-with-dr-kate-and-lauren/)