Thanks for Sharing

🔐 Episode 340: The Green Flags in Relationships No One Talks About

Accountability is one of the strongest predictors of emotional safety. In this episode, I reveal 8 evidence-based green flags that show someone is capable of healthy love — not just interested in it. These are the relational patterns that build safety → security → trust → love → shared meaning.

You’ll also learn why saying “I love you” every night isn’t a sign of security—but respecting your pace and boundaries is.

🎧 Listen now and recalibrate your relationship radar. Whether you’re dating, healing, or 20 years into marriage, this episode will give you the roadmap to building love that’s safe, stable, and transformative.

Episode 339: But is it good sex?

 We love to say “We have good sex.” But what if what we’re calling good is actually trauma, anxiety, emotional distance, or porn conditioning disguised as intimacy? In this episode, I’m asking the uncomfortable question most couples avoid: “Is it really good sex—or just intense sex?”

 

 Great orgasms don’t equal great intimacy. The real question isn’t “how often are you having sex?” but “do you feel safe, seen, and connected afterward?”   If sex is the only time you feel close in your relationship—this episode is for you.

 

   Hit play now and reclaim your sexual truth.
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Episode 338: The Loneliness Epidemic: How we lost connection

We’re more “connected” than ever—yet lonelier than we’ve ever been. 

Loneliness has become an epidemic.
We’ve traded real community for scrolling, and honest connection for performative belonging.
And it’s hitting young men the hardest.

 In this week’s episode, Jackie unpacks the roots of loneliness, what it’s doing to our bodies and minds, and why vulnerability—not toughness—is the way out.

•  Listen now on your favorite podcast app and start your own conversation about connection.

•  Share this episode with someone who might need the reminder: you don’t have to do life alone.

Episode 337: 🌿 Trauma bonds keep us tied to relationships that hurt us—relationships we know aren’t healthy, but somehow feel impossible to leave. 💔

In this episode of Thanks for Sharing, I explore what trauma bonding really is, how it forms, and why it’s so difficult to break free. We’ll discuss the psychology behind it, the subtle ways it can manifest (not just in extreme cases), and what healing can entail.

If you’ve ever wondered why you—or someone you care about—feel stuck in a painful relationship cycle, this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and a path forward. 

 Listen now on your favorite podcast app. Link in bio 

Episode 336: Raising Sons and Young Men

 Why are so many young men feeling more alone than ever—despite living in the most connected age in history? In this episode, we tackle the loneliness epidemic head-on and explore what fathers, sons, and communities can do to build real connection and courage."

 In this episode, Jackie sits down with Carver Brown to talk about the unique challenges young men face in today’s world. Together, they unpack the distinction between healthy solitude and painful isolation, and why community is crucial.   

   Don’t miss this episode—it’s a conversation that matters for all of us. Listen now, and then share it with someone who needs a reminder that they’re not alone. And if this message resonates with you, hit subscribe so you never miss future episodes that dive deep into recovery, connection, and living with purpose.  

https://youtu.be/c8BOdf5drsA?si=iDaV-C8tnFHo1Xfj

Episode 335: Rage isn’t the same as anger—and knowing the difference can change your relationships.

What happens when anger and sexuality collide? In this episode, Jackie unpacks eroticized rage—a painful fusion of anger and arousal rooted in childhood trauma. She explores how disrupted attachment and unhealed wounds manifest in adult relationships, and why understanding the distinction between anger and rage is crucial for healing. 

 Listen now to learn how to break the cycle and move toward safer, healthier intimacy.  

Episode 334: Hard conversations don’t have to break connection—they can build it. 💬

 In this episode, we dive into how to approach tough talks with compassion, clarity, and courage, so you can protect safety and grow trust in your most important relationships. 

Episode 333: Netflix Adolescents - Part 2

 What do a psychologist, a smartphone, and a fractured family all have in common? They’re at the center of the struggles today’s teens are facing—and Netflix’s Adolescents pulls no punches in showing us why.

 In Part Two of our conversation on Adolescents, Jackie Pack and Rachel Allen dig deeper into the psychological and societal layers of the series. From the delicate role of psychologists in building trust, to how technology fuels youth behavior, to the ripple effects of crime inside families—we break it all down. We also explore how parents and teens can open up conversations about masculinity, identity, and the modern pressures shaping adolescence.

 Don’t just watch the series—understand it. Tune into Part Two now and join us as we unpack what’s really happening beneath the surface of growing up today.

 

Episode 332: Netflix's Adolescents - Part 1

 What happens when a raw coming-of-age story collides with the hard truths of bullying, violence, and fractured families? Netflix’s Adolescents isn’t just a show—it’s a mirror to the struggles our youth face today.

 In this episode, we dive into the first three episodes of the Netflix series Adolescents. From its striking filming style to the layered psychology of its characters, we unpack how the show shines a light on youth violence, the weight of parental roles, and the hidden realities of adolescence. This isn’t just entertainment—it’s a conversation starter about the challenges shaping the next generation.

 Tune in now and join the conversation—because understanding the world of our teens means rethinking the world we’re building for them. Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts.

Episode 331: 🎯 Are you unknowingly abandoning or betraying yourself?

 This episode explores how childhood dynamics can lead to self-abandonment and self-betrayal—and how to start healing and reclaiming authenticity.

https://healingpathsrecovery.com/couples-workshop-beyond-words/